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Forgiveness is probably one of the hardest things a person has to do in life. It’s not easy to forgive someone who has patently done something wrong to you. Why should they get a pass for hurting and causing you grief? It’s almost as if forgiving them means we’re, in some ways, condoning their actions. But forgiveness isn’t at all about the people who hurt us. It’s about ourselves, our freedom, and our road to healing and recovery. In Vivian…

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closure

Over the course of my life, I’ve dealt with a handful of crappy situationships. Majority of them ended abruptly and forced me to move on, although I wasn’t particularly ready to. The one that stung the most ended my junior year of college.For the sake of the person’s identity I’m going to refer to him as Superman (you’ll understand the reference in a minute).I fell in love with Superman when I was fifteen-years-old. I might’ve…

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i-aint-saying-he-a

Three years ago, I was involved with a guy that I met during undergrad. We were good friends and decided to take it to the next level during the summer. I always knew he was a fuckboy but I chose to ignore his fuckboy tendencies because, in many ways, I was lonely and wanted attention. As the summer progressed, I started to notice things about him that I overlooked before.He was a full-blown freeloader.I always had to go pick him up anytime…

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let-it-go

Searching for a job after graduating college can be tough. I spent months completing hundreds of job applications in and outside my field but no one would hire me. Finally, after six months, I got a job…

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